DISCUSSING OUR PROBLEMS DOES NO GOOD TO US
Most times we talk about the tough situations we face in life as a means of consoling ourselves but we fail to understand that we are leaving ourselves open and vulnerable to all the negativity and bullets of the enemy friend we are sharing our problems with , thinking that one person will offer a solution that will enable us get over the sad situation . It's OK to share our sorrows with friends, families, neighbors, and even strangers as the case may be but its best we tackle our problems ourselves before taking it outside ourselves to others for help. Some of these friends are always willing to help but so many more are happy you are in that situation and would offer solutions that will even worsen the case as it maybe at that point in time. I have a friend who would rather pay to get little things done for him than doing it himself and because such things are always done for him he has no idea on how such stuffs are done, which is very bad . We should always try to tac...
