David Michael Okechukwu's Blog

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#BEWISE: You don't need to carry that grudge for too long or that issue that is giving you a hard time for long because carrying it will always make your heart ache and troubled each time you think of what happened. Most times we make mistakes in life and it's good we adhere to correction so as to not make such mistakes again in life but we are still humans and will always make mistakes. It's not making the mistakes that matters but what our reactions will be afterwords, I know I have made so many mistakes in life but I will like you to always correct me when such happens and not carry it like a treasure in your heart so that I will learn from my mistakes and tomorrow I will not make such mistakes again. Dear friend resolve to accept corrections, correct others, learn from both sides and always let go for a brighter tomorrow and as you  do that, remain blessed and merry Xmas in advance and lastly please keep my x-mas gifts safe for me. Thanks #TOTB #Davidmichaellovesyo

#BEWISE : When you are doing things In life please don't do it on the account that others are not doing it well and so you too won't do well, do it because you know what you are suppose to do and that its the right thing to do. Its time we stop immitating peoples wrong actions and behaviours and start setting a pace for them to take and always make sure you do the right thing even if you have to make a sacrifice. "Don't live your life on the account of others but live it to be yourself. Your real self".Remain blessed. #TOTB #Davidmichaellovesyou. 

#BEWISE: No one in life will determine your happiness but you yourself . Your happiness should not rest on someone, not on materials things but on you. Don't let anyone tell you that you are not meant to be happy because you deserve to be happy and joyful always wearing a smiling face and a happy mind will make feel fulfilled. "if you are not happy with yourself then no one can make you happy so dear friend always try to be happy no matter the situation. Remain blessed #TOTB #Davidmichaellovesyou. 

#BEWISE: You are planning to start the change you want tomorrow,next week, or probably next year and right now you are still making plans on how to start so that you will achieve your goal. I tell you this,the best time to start that change is now and not tomorrow or next year because tomorrow never comes and next year still will not come. Don't wait till then to start but start now and do what you have to do to effect the change you want. Do it now and not tomorrow because tomorrow never comes. #TOTB #Davidmichaellovesyou. 

#BEWISE : In life you don't need to speak or talk about all the issues of life because most time even when  you speak you worsen the case and it seems you are not helping. Keep calm most times and let things take their natural effect and you will learn from it. #TOTB #Davidmichaellovesyou. 

#BEWISE: Sometimes I wonder what type of beings we are,although we are not always the same but most of us always behave alike. Many things happen around us every blessed day but not everything that happens that must draw our attentions or we must let distract us from what we might be doing. There are so many distractions in life but choose those you want to get distracted with and not those that will distract you and know this,you must not always contribute to all that happens around you as a human being be it good or bad but try to always contribute your best when its needed. Act when you need to act and don't do what will bring you down but always do your best to affect all around you positively. Do this and remain blessed #TOTB #Davidmichaellovesyou

#BEWISE: Are you planning to settle at that place where you are right now? If your answer is yes please change it to no because even though you think and feel you have arrived and you don't need anything again,you should not remain stagnant but always move on and don't be complacent for you are to keep moving in life and remain at a spot even if its the best spot in life. Always believe that your best is still to come,when people around are telling you that you have done well,appreciate them but still remind them that your best is still to come. Don't dwell in the past success and glories but look forward to doing more in the future and that's how you break obstacles and limitations for you are not to be limited in life. Resolve today to focus on what is to come which is the brighter future and not what you have achieved in life. But what you are still to achieved. Set goals and make plans to achieve them. Happy weekend and remain blessed. #TOTB #Davidmichaellov

#BEWISE : You don't need to be paid to do good in life because you doing good will not just benefit you but also benefit  everyone around  you. Don't do good because of someone or because of what you will  gain materially, not because you have the strength but do good because it is good to do good. Always feel free to do good because it will go a long to change the work and everything around you. Do good and remain blessed #TOTB #Davidmchaellovesyou

#BEWISE: Most times when we do something for someone,we always have it on our minds that this person should congratulate us or give us something in return to show appreciation but they always fail and we are disappointed that they acted like we never existed but that is not how it should be. Try not to always expect from anyone because you will always be disappointed and saddened and so always keep your mind off from expectations and you will be glad you did. #TOTB #Davidmchaellovesyou. 

#BEWISE: Life will never give you an opportunity to smile or be happy because it has so many trials,though times and so many unpleasant seasons,although there are good times but we don't see those good times but let the harsh times overshadow the good and wonderful times we have . You don't need to let your situation deprive you of your happiness and joy in life,all you need do is always try to be happy even when things seem to be going the wrong direction for you. Joseph when thrown into prison did not die or cry himself to self pity but he seized the opportunity and was happy with everyone around him and at last he was out and was so powerful and more than happy at his new post and status. So why then do you think you can't be happy in life? Have a rethink and you will know you have so many reasons to be happy always.I am always happy not because I have everything going well for me but because I know God is with me and I am contented with all He has given me,so for tha

#BEWISE: The words of your mouth goes a long way to affect those and things around you either positively or negatively. You may think you have the freedom to speak but choose your combination of words well. Your word will build you or destroy you and also your words can build or destroy those around you. My dear always think before you speak and don't just speak because everyone around you is speaking and so you must speak too,No, but speak words that gives life and words that affect lives positively and be rest assured that when we all start using positive words,we will change the world with our positivity. Speak to bring about a beautiful change in the world that starts from you and speak to give life and as you do this,remain blessed. #TOTB. #Davidmichaellovesyou.

#BEWISE: Every thing done in life will definitely have a result either they are done rightly or wrongly so dear friend be very careful in whatever you do in life because at the end of it all,you will be greatly rewarded. BE WISE and remain blessed #TOTB# #David Michael loves you#

#BEWISE: I actually don't always expect much from people when it comes to doing some work because I know myself not to be the lazy type but all the same its always good to contribute you quota when a job is needed to be done. Just that little help,advice and support you give to make a plan come to perfection always goes a long way to put smiles and joy on the faces of those involved in that plan and that alone can always make them hold you with great esteem. You don't need to give all but just give a small amount because that is what is needed and all will go well. Always do what you know is within your power to help and make an imagination come to realisation and as you do so,remain blessed. #TOTB #Davidmichaellovesyou.

Loving someone demands great sacrifice and ebdurance #Davloves

When that guy saw you for the first time and was swept off his feet,he walked up to you and told you what he feels for you and ever since then he has been on your neck to give him a chance to show you how caring and loving he would be. The way he is gonna love and cherish you for the rest of his life and even marry you when the right time comes although he is still but a boy and you a sweet sixteen or rather the both of you are teenagers and in your early adult stages. You may think this boy knows not what he is doing but he sure knows what he wants and he is going after it but you,at the other end is pushing him away with the mindset that this guy must be a player or that you are not interested. Be careful for that guy may not be so patient to wait until you are ready and walk away to another girl. They say we don't know what we have until we lose it but its also true that we don't know what we are missing until it arrives. It takes only a minute to get a crush on some

Many times in relationships,you will hear rumours about your partner but the best way to not fall for this rumours is trusting your partner and only believing their words even when they are lying. Always learn to trust your partner and your relationship will grow in love and last long. #Davloves

#BEWISE: When you hear those that are not fluent in speaking good english,we laugh at them and also look down on them like they are nothing but just an image. I tell you they may not have the ability to speak well like you do but they sure have something that you can never take away from them which is their freedom to speak. This persons don't speak always because they know they ain't good in speaking but when they do,they speak meaningful words that will benefit all and input in us positivity but we fail to see the wisdom in their words but prefer to laugh at the tone and combination of words they use. My friend its time you sit up and think outside the box and stop claiming to be MR KNOW ALL but start doing what is right by encouraging them when they speak so that they will do well next time. Encourage someone today and remain blessed. #TOTB# #Davidmichaellovesyou.

#BEWISE: Have you ever asked yourself who you are? Most times we don't know ourselves or rather should I say we don't have a clue about who we are and that makes us pick fights with those around us when they tell us that we are mad or tell you,you are a failure,a coward,a poor person,a stingy person,a thief,an olodo(a dull brain) and other abusive,ill and negative words. Why would you fight with someone who tells you,you are mad when you know that you are not mad. The truth hurts when you are been told of it and maybe you are truly mad and so you are fighting because you have been told the truth. Come on,its high time we start asking ourselves this ordinary questions and start knowing ordinary solutions to all life's problem. When a person addresses you with what you are not,you don't need to react except that person is telling you the truth. Know yourself,be yourself and remain blessed. #TOTB# #Davidmichaellovesyou.

#BEWISE: I have come to realise that there's nothing in life that will ever be enough,is it wealth,food,material things? Mention them. If things were ever enough then what is Dangote still doing? What is Bill Gates still doing? What are all this notable people still doing? They would have told themselves they have gotten enough and stopped doing what they love doing but no because if they stopped,they will realise what I have just realised"nothing is enough"they will enjoy and finish all they have and then start again from square one and because they don't want that,they will always work. Don't be lazy in telling yourself you have gotten enough and then you stop working,keep working and doing your best in life because nothing is ever enough but be contented with all you have. Always do your best and remain blessed. #TOTB# #Davidmichaellovesyou.

#BEWISE: Do you know what makes one unique in life? Its everything that makes them who they are. Sometimes you may think you are too short or tall,too dark or light in completion,too fat or thin and even too dull or intelligent but all this things are what brings out the uniqueness in you and makes you that person you truly are. That you are the way you are today does not determine who you will be in the future and my words to you is,use what you have for the glory of God and He will bless you with that. Just like AKI and PAWPAW used their height and talent well,you too should do same and don't let your appearance cover what you have inside. Accept yourself the way you are and you will know what a unique person you are. Remain blessed #TOTB# #Davidmichaellovesyou.

#BEWISE: Have you ever thought why that your friend that you think is the least in all that is done among all your friends is doing somethings that you can't do or have gotten to that level that you are still trying to get to? You should ask yourself and maybe you will get an answer but I want to tell you this,all things on earth has its season including humans and so someone may not be doing well today but tomorrow that person will be far more better than he/she was yesterday because its that persons season,so never you think ill of anyone but be always supportive in any way you can because your season is coming too and you will be glad you did not look down on that person or that your friend. #TOTB# #Davidmichaellovesyou.

#BEWISE: Oh how life often treats us sometimes,most times we think its the end of the road for us but its not because its when life gives you so much reason to be sad and be pulled down you need to tell life that you are stronger than what its offering you and make that experience a stepping stone to forge ahead and become that which you are meant to be in life a VICTOR. Remain blessed and become the VICTOR that you truly are. #TOTB# #Davidmichaellovesyou

#BEWISE: Do you wish to be like 2face,Nelson Mandela,Aliko Dangote,C Ronaldo,Wole Soyinka and all other notable persons in the world? My dear friend,you don't need to be like them because they have made history and still making history but you,what have you done?what has been your contribution? You don't need to be like all this people,you need to be like yourself because you are you and there's no other you and you need to make your own history and let people make reference to you. Discover who you are and what your potentials are and start doing what you need to do to recover all you need to recover. It's a food for thought and do me a favour,answer the questions and DISCOVER TO RECOVER. #TOTB# #DavidMichaelLovesYou.

#BEWISE#: You know I have tried to always be happy in life but its seems not possible and I have to come learn that life has two main seasons and they are(1)GOOD TIMES and (2)BAD TIMES. And that is why when life offers me good time and all is going well for me I don't allow the joy and the happiness overwhelm me and when its bad time,I also don't allow the sadness and pains it brings to break and pull me down but all I do is adapting to all seasons of life and that has kept me going and so I advice you also to do same and never allow any season affect you either negatively nor positively. Remain blesse. #TOTB# #Davidmichaellovesyou

#BEWISE: How sweet it is to be a leader with the authority to do as we wish or as you wish but remember that you are a servant ironically. You are a leader and there is no doubt about that but been a leader means that you must serve those you are leading and not use them as slaves. Most times those that call themselves leaders don't actually know their duty and so they misuse the privilege given to them. Everyone on earth is a leader but just that few are opportune to take that seat but that doesn't mean you can't play your role as a follower. A leader is like a light to those following him and they learn from what he does and so I will tell you to see yourself as a leader today and start acting like one because there are people following you that you do not know but until you start abusing that quality of leadership in you then you will know how many people you have mislead. Ask God to help you lead well just like King Solomon and you will find joy in leading. Jesus

 It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return but what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person we will know how to be grateful for that gift. Love is when you take away the feeling the passion and the romance in a relationship and find out you still care for that person. A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go. When the door of happiness closes another opens but often times we look so long to the closed door that we don't see the one which has been opened for us. The best kind of friend is the kind you can just be with, never say a word and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you have ever had. It is true that we don't know what

#BEWISE: Have you ever seen a mad man or woman naked before? What comes to my mind is the story of creation,when God created man and how he wanted us to live on earth without having the knowledge of good and bad but we spoilt it. Mad people are living the way God wanted us to live,they are not afraid of anything,they know all and even what we don't know are revealed to them and they are fearless but it has not yet dawn on them that they are naked because they do not have that knowledge of good and bad but all they do is directed by God. I pray God still makes us what He wanted us to be at the end of time but how would you feel if we go back to that era? #TOTB# #Davidmichaellovesyou      

#BEWISE: Do you know that your attitude and character is what makes you who you really are today?Most of the times those around us try their possible best to make us change by channelling negativity into us and most of all causing us to be angry so that we loose control of ourselves and do what is not in our nature and that is not our character or attitude. I tell you,when such situations arises,think and know the attitude you have and let your attitude affect the situation positively because your attitude speaks to the world what you are capable of doing and by so doing you will be able to control all negativity that's been pushed your way. Control situations around you positively and remain blessed #TOTB# #DavidMichaelLovesYou.

#BEWISE: Pleasing everyone in life is impossible because one mans food is another mans poison and so always try your best to treat all with love,care and also the way you will want them to treat you. Don't try to please all if not you will end up not pleasing anyone but do your best and leave the rest for God to handle. #TOTB# #Davidmichaellovesyou

#BEWISE: Life is just like our primary school days,where we were taught all the subjects in education but as we move from one level to another we drop some of the subjects and focus on the ones that defines what we want to be in life but that doesn't mean you don't have the knowledge of all you have been taught back then. Most times we don't know what some persons have been through in life and then we conclude that they know nothing about some aspect of life,sometimes its true but most times those you think don't know anything know more than you do. BE WISE and never underestimate another persons knowledge but be humble and learn from everyone around you,who knows,maybe the knowledge you seek lies with them. #TOTB# #Davidmichaellovesyou

#BEWISE: I was chatting with some friends on sunday and when we talked about fetching water one said he will never do that even when he will be staying alone because he will have a water system that will supply water when he needs it but I told him he will one day,maybe not now but later but he still insisted he will not,never. I thought to myself and said "for one to live large tomorrow,one must hustle nd struggle well today,one must sow to reap,one must pass through pains to gain and one must work today to enjoy tomorrow but all this still tells me that my tomorrow will be better best than today.I wish you same too. But do know that you will need to pass through one hard time in order to live well. Most times we tend to blind ourselves to the realities of life forgetting that this things makes life LIFE. #TOTB# #Davidmichaellovesyou.  

#BEWISE: Have someone ever wronged,offended and caused you pain before?And you vowed never to forgive such person,I tell you my good friend that you are hurting yourself. I know that its always hard to let such pain go but its important you forgive and let go because that will keep your mind at rest and make you feel good and happy too even when you see that person. Forgiveness makes you feel less burdened and gives you peace of mind,soul and body because when you forgive you will be doing yourself good and that will make you live long for you will have a free mind. Remember"you become best of friends after you fight with someone".  #TOTB# #Davidmichaellovesyou.

#BEWISE: Have you told yourself that you can't go on anymore?Do you sometimes feel you can't hold on anymore? Yes,most times these feelings come but what makes the difference is not succumbing to that thought and feeling but holding on and still going forward for "a quitter never wins and winners never quit". So that thing that is giving though time that you really need,go for it,conquer it and come out in flying colours. Always know what you truly need and don't hesitate to go for it. You can do it #TOTB# #Davidmichaellovesyou

#BEWISE: Ain't you tired of reading peoples success stories,histories and how they made themselves heroes of today and the many good things,sacrifices they did just to put down their names on the walls of life? If you are not,I am and I am gonna make my own history and also tag my name to the wall of life and be a hero too. I will achieve all this by Gods grace and be proud of myself tomorrow. Its left for you to think outside the box and be part of history or remain where you are and tomorrow you will be reading,watching and listening to me and then you start quoting me and my words. BE WISE #TOTB# #Davidmichaellovesyou.  

#BEWISE: I am no longer child,bear bear don show,chinwike don grow and some things that I did when I was a child I don't take responsibility of them but now,anything I do must be accounted by me and that is what makes one an adult,although in our now generation children take responsibilities that are meant for adults and that is not bad but know this,"when you start taking responsibilities of your actions,you are no longer a child". Be wise in the actions you take in life for they are part of what will build you,made you who you are today and will make you who you will be to tomorrow. Remain blessed #TOTB# #DavidMichaelLovesYou.

#BEWISE: I want to live a fulfilled life and enjoy it to its fullest and achieve all that God has destined me to achieve but most times the difficulties of life tend to stand in my way but I am not troubled because God said to me in his words in Jeremiah 29:11'David Michael Okechukwu I know the plans I have for you,plans of good and not evil to bring you to an expected end' and with these words I always have joy in my heart,smiles on my face and happiness that always grow within me and I advice you too to have this same thought with me and know that the go may be going bad now but be rest assured that the future will be more than brighter cause as for me I know my future will be great and I wish you that also. Happy weekend #TOTB# #Davidmichaellovesyou.

#BEWISE: You know there are times when situations of life gets to our nerves and channels their harshness through our friends or those around us and the urge and vibe to react will be burning in us but let me advice you,never you let that fire burning in you come out at that point in time because you will regret what you will do later. So even if you want to react,stay cool and don't do anything at that point in time,don't even say a word just keep mute until the fire in you goes off and your head is cool then you will have a better solution and a fantastic idea on what to do. Dedicated to my bro from another mum Felix Femi Ajayi. A.K.A Chukwudi #TOTB# #Davidmichaellovesyou.  

#BEWISE: Its good to have friends around but what is more important is to know the kind of friends you keep around you because sometimes when you think you have very good friends it turns out to be false for these friends you think you know like you know yourself are the ones that will stab you at your back and cause you so much pain and even make you loose all you think you have,so dear friend always shine your eyes and be at alert all the time for you don’t know who is who and when your true friends will become your worst enemy. Choose your friends well and be careful with all of them – BEWISE and remain blessed. #TOTB# #DavidMichaelLovesYou

#BEWISE: There is this one thing I just learned recently in life and that is not complaining about all that happens to me,be it good or bad. We must not complain about everything that happens to us,most times we complain and situation goes from worse to worst,sometimes better to best but all the same,try to learn not to always complain but let every situation favour you. The question is,MUST YOU COMPLAIN? Answer this and remain blessed. #TOTB# #DavidMichaelLovesYou.